I decided to enlarge the tank drain hole and use it to route the two hoses in. My configuration for fuel is 6 gallons reserve port and 12 gallon main starboard.
Collection of tools, parts and stuff

I drilled a 1 1/2 hole for the drain/hoses and a 1 1/16 hole for the nose of the three-way valve.
Valve attached with 2x 1/4 x 3/4 SS panheads and nuts.
I thought about bringing the cross over fuel line out the larger hole with a brass elbow on the rearmost barb fitting but decided against it in the end.
Note that each hose has a about 30 cm of strain relief so that if the hose is stepped up it wont pull off the barbed fittings

Closer look

I do need to finish this off with SS hose clamps or zip ties to secure the hoses. I will probably go with zip ties.
>>Parts list
3 Way valve TEMPO model 302WV3 , part number 140030
1/4 NPT by 3/8 inch hose barbs
Hose Barb TEMPO model 405CDB, part number 200060 (total of 5 barbs used)
Hose Barb Moeller part 33405-10
Tank Elbow TEMPO model 436ELB, part number 200160
>>Tool list
Drill
1 1/2 inch Hole saw
1 1/8 inch hole saw
1/4 drill
teflon tape
SS clamps/zip ties to be added
Vice grips for fittings


