Try thinking of the backstay as a mast-vang. It is to the mast what the boom vang is to the boom. It helps control sail shape on a certain point of sail. It does also take up mast pressure when running dead down wind on the

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achieves downwind mast support by having the chainplates for the upper shrouds approx 8inches further aft(like many Hunter keelboats). The backstay is not an integral part of proper rig tension. Your rig will stand just fine without the backstay.
Read the many threads about broken masts and you'll learn that the forestay needs proper tension against the shrouds to avoid shock loading. Tightening the forestay by tightening the backstay will not prevent this.
I just tried searching for a previous thread on tuning your rig(there are many) but I couldn't find the one I wanted. There is always the article on tuning fractional rigs under the features heading on the home-page.
The basic advice was A: Level boat fore and aft as well as across beam B: Hang weight from mainsail halyard to use as plumb bob. C: Loosen stays slightly(don't undo more than 1 at a time! or mast could fall to the side), tighten forestay turnbuckle all the way down(this still left me with mast raked aft). D: Tighten upper shrouds until the mast bends 2" forward from your plumb line. E: Tighten lower shrouds until they make a slightly lower note than your uppers.
Please don't take these steps as gospel, rather take ownership if you recognize these steps as your own (tkanzler? or dlandersson? I can't remember) then correct them. Or hopefully someone else remembers and can post a link to the thread.
Any way I followed these instructions by memory (without the plumb line) and my boat sails much better. It still rounds up in a gust(weather helm) but its easily controlled now. I was lying on the cabin top a week ago and happened to sight up the mast, I've only got about an inch of forward bend around the spreaders so I think I'm still a tad loose.
Edit: found link to thread, and it was Vkmaynard with the good advice! 3rd post on linked thread
http://www.macgregorsailors.com/forum/v ... oose+gauge
Willy