It just hit me
This is a great forum to get good solid information on things nautical 
This is obviously not the right place for information on things having to do with things not nautical especially things having to do with ....you know....... women
From what I gather a certain number of us guys who gave you suggestions have had difficulty maintaining a life long commitment with ...you know ....women
Does Anne Landers still give advice
Maybe google her up and see Good Lord here I am still giving advice 
Glad she liked the pearls
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