I would not be too worried about the weight. Red oak is actually light then Maple. One thing you have to be careful with Oak is if water gets behind the finished it will create a deep black stain. So be sure to give your project sufficient coats of finish and it’s a good idea to cover all sides including the sides that you do not see.
Average dried weight
(15 % moisture content)
Species Lbs. / Board foot
Northern Cedar 1.75
Western Cedar 1.92
Sitka Spruce 2.33
Red Oak 2.35
Alder, Red 2.35
Alaskan Cedar 2.61
Douglas fir 2.83
Honduras Mahogany 2.83
Philippine Mahogany 3.25
Tiger Maple 3.3
Teak 3.3
Sugar Maple 3.8
Rock Maple 3.8
White Oak 3.93
You might also consider Bamboo. You can buy it in planks like flooring. Bamboo is denser, harder and more durable then Maple, It’s actually 16% harder than maple; also it’s a 1/3 lighter in weight and more stable than oak. Plus Bamboo is sstronger than steel in tension and stronger than most concrete in compression.
You can have a smooth finish on your oak without applying tons of finish. All you have to do is fill the grain with wood filler. The finish product looks excellent! The product I use is from Parks
http://www.newparks.com/profinisher-pg.html. This product is latex-based wood filler and you can purchase at Home Depot. To use you first must do all of your sanding, then you apply the filler. Then you give your project a final sanding after the filler is has dried. If you chose to stain your wood you will do this after the filler is sanded. Then I spray a sealer coat and then 4 to 6 light coats of finish.
FYI:
Are all boards created equal? No, you have to be careful were you buying from and what you grab from the pile. Some so called lumber yards sell lower quality materials.
Volumes upon volumes have been writing on this subject but I will try to just give a quick overview.
Selecting wood
Wood is cut in two ways. The first is “Plain-sawn” which is also known as through and through, Flat-sawn, Flat-grain or Slash-sawn. The second method is Quarter-sawn, which includes rift-sawn, comb-grain, edge-grain and vertical-grain. For plain-sawn the log is just ripped with parallel cuts through the entire log. The bulk of the boards will be plain & rift- sawn with a few quarter-sawn. For Quarter-sawn boards there are two methods for cutting. The most common and economical way is to cut the log into quarters and then cut each quarter into boards. This will put the grain at around 90°. The second method is more involved to explain (true quarter-sawn boards are cut radially) so do to time and space, I’ll pass. If you look at the end of the board you will see the end grain and the direction of the growth rings. The plain-sawn board will have a flat grain; growth rings are parallel to the face. The Quarter-sawn boards will have the grain at right angles to the face. In North America, plain-sawn boards will have the growth rings meeting the face of the board at 30°, when between 30°and 60°, it’s called rift-sawn and between 60° to 90° is Quarter-sawn. Flat sawn will give you a more decorative grain and Quarter-sawn is a straight figure.
Stability is a bit of a long subject, but in a nut shell the growth rings have different lengths. The outer longer rings shrink more then the shorter inner rings. This will cause the board to cup out and it will happen on the side which has the longer rings. That’s because the longer rings shrink more. On the other hand the growth rings on the Quarter-sawn board are running at 90° to the face and are basically the same length and thickness so they shrink almost in unison, hence a very stable board.
I give you this information so you have a better understanding to why it is important to take the time and cull your boards as you grab them out of the pile, but more importantly what to actually look for. Keep in mind flat grain boards tend to "cup" or distort, and therefore can split or check more easily. In some cases quite severely later on, especially if not seasoned properly, and hence it is best to stick to vertical grain wood if at all possible. Ask your supplier to verify the moisture content, it should be around 12% to 16%. If you pick-up a board and it feels heavy compared to the others, put it back no matter how pretty the grain is. It has high moisture content and it will ruin your beautiful project down the road.
You could make life simple and just buy plywood with the veneer of your choice and use banding on the edges. Plywood is extremely stable and strong! I prefer to limit the use of plywood to the caucus (box) of you cabinetry or flat panels in the doors. In the end veneers can chip. The problem is what do you do for your doors? If you use the wide boards you’re asking for trouble, remember longer rings shrink. To control this problem you simply do a glued-up panel. This is the method I use for all of my doors or any large surface and it’s quite simple once you know how to do it. Plus you do not need a shop like mine or Norm Abram's “New Yankee Workshop” to produce sound stable beautiful doors. I my younger days, I built doors in my apartment!
How to build a glued-up panel
To create a stable panel, you simply reduce the width of each board and then glue them together. I like to work with 2” wide boards. You could also use 1” x 4” nominal (actual size is ¾” x 3-1½”). The trick is you must reverse the grain of every other board before glue up. Look at the end grain and you will see the curve or arch of the grain. Draw an exaggerated curve so that it is clear which way it goes. Now when you lay out the boards on top of the clamps, you just turn every other curve the opposite direction. So 1st board curve up, 2nd curve down, 3rd curve up, 4th curve down and so on until you reach your desired width. Now glue and clamp. There are few other steps to insure the boards are straight and if any one is interested I will explain how to do this with out spending a fortune on tools. Just let me know and I’ll post it. By building your panels this way you will not have any problems with cupping. You see the first board is try to cup up the second is trying top cup down and so on. Plus you have drastically reduced the length of each outer growth ring. This will eliminate warping.
Well I better stop witting, wood is a major part of my life’s work and I can go on and on!
PS: my favorite wood is Cherry.