Well folks, here is an update, .. almost 2 years later. (and yes, abusing my privilege as the OP or bring the thread back from the depths).
I didn't buy an dinghy, we ended up finding mast-up storage at a local day-sailing lake, and never did any over night stuff, . that changes this summer when we will be cruising inland lakes.
I have gone absolutely nuts -- like obsessively crazy -- trying to find the right dinghy, .. trying to balance:
1) The fact I will not use it very much.
2) Don't want to spend too much money on it
3) Might be using it in salt water, on oceans, but in foreseeable future online inland lakes.
4) I don't want it to be too small - the wife needs to enjoy boating, and she has a very low tolerance for any sort of difficult, or unpleasant experience.
5) I need it to be light so I can pull it on deck, or load it up or what ever needs to be done.
6) I want it to be big enough to ride well, and hold some weight, (we are bigger people).
7) No idea what to do for engine yet. - separate issue though.
The low price, real dinghy I have been able to find is this guy.
http://www.adventurewarehouse.ca/boat-a ... uffle.html
however, 3 potential drawbacks...
1) anyone know if it will fit on the bow if it has too?
2) do these 'slat floors" suck, they look like they would.
3) no "v" keel , so it will not track well, . will it tow well, or really badly?
Thoughts?